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AREA – President Barack Obama has proclaimed February as National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. As the local sexual assault crisis center, REACH would like to share the core theme of the Proclamation.

In his Proclamation, President Obama outlines the need for and supports efforts in communities, schools and families to empower young people to develop healthy relationships throughout their lives and to engage in activities that prevent and respond to teen dating violence.

The proclamation states, "National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month reflects our Nation's growing understanding that violence within relationships often begins during adolescence. Each year, about one in four teens report being the victim of verbal, physical, emotional, or sexual violence.  Abusive relationships can impact adolescent development, and teens who experience dating violence may suffer long-term negative behavioral and health consequences.  Adolescents in controlling or violent relationships may carry these dangerous and unhealthy patterns into future relationships.  The time to break the cycle of teen dating violence is now, before another generation falls victim to this tragedy.

Though many communities face the problem of teen dating violence, young people can be afraid to discuss it, or they may not recognize the severity of physical, emotional, or sexual abuse.  Parents and other adults can also be uncomfortable acknowledging that young people experience abuse, or may be unaware of its occurrence.  To help stop abuse before it starts, mentors and leaders must stress the importance of mutual respect and challenge representations in popular culture that can lead young people to accept unhealthy behavior in their relationships.

Our efforts to take on teen dating violence must address the social realities of adolescent life today.  Technology such as cell phones, email, and social networking websites play a major role in many teenagers' lives, but these tools are sometimes tragically used for control, stalking, and victimization.  Emotional abuse using digital technology, including frequent text messages, threatening emails, and the circulation of embarrassing messages or photographs without consent, can be devastating to young teens.  I encourage concerned teens, parents, and loved ones to contact the National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline at 1-866-331-9474 or visit www.LoveIsRespect.org to receive immediate and confidential advice and referrals.

… "During National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month — and throughout the year — let each of us resolve to do our part to break the silence and create a culture of healthy relationships for all our young people.  Adults who respect themselves, their partners, and their neighbors demonstrate positive behaviors to our children — lessons that will help them lead safe and happy lives free from violence.”

According to the Maine Center for Disease Control and Prevention, the Maine Integrated Youth Health Survey found that 11.9% of high school students have been physically forced to have sexual intercourse in their lifetime, and 13.6% have experienced forced sexual contact.

A local resource is REACH, the sexual assault center serving Oxford county at 1-800-871-7741. REACH also services the towns of Bridgton and Harrison by calling 1-800-213-6937.

To see the entire Proclamation, please go to: www.whitehouse.gov/the-press-office/2011/01/31/presidential-proclamation-national-teen-dating-violence-awareness-and-pr

Debbie Dembski is the director of REACH — Rape Education and Crisis Hotline.

LISA

Please do special banner for this like you did for cervical cancer, healthy eating etc.